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THIS is exactly the sort of thing that makes me paranoid to friend anyone else again ever. Whether or not the screen capped post is for real, just the fact that someone would do that to someone else is disgusting. If it IS real, that's even worse, and it makes me sick.

I am THIS close to unfriending that comm myself, like others on my flist have. The level of utterly stupid and/or hateful posts lately makes me cringe.

Date: 2009-04-13 02:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mcgarrygirl78.livejournal.com
I was disgusted when I saw that as well, as I have not de-friended the comm yet but that was surely the last straw. The amount of hate, contempt, and cruelty some people have makes me shake my head. If that person has troubles, they are definitely not meant to be exploited and then put on public display in a place that has nothing to do with it. I am appalled and feel bad for the girl.

Date: 2009-04-13 02:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
It's not even the CM comm either! That person has joined many other comms the OP was a member of and done the same thing. No one deserves to be exposed, but especially about thing like that, which are difficult enough to talk about even among those you love.

Date: 2009-04-13 02:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rhea-carlysse.livejournal.com
wtf? O.O

I am so disconnected from fandom lately that when I come back, the level of stupidity always surprises me.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
LOL I like to think the best of people, but sadly, asshats like this do exist. *sigh*

Date: 2009-04-13 02:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] coffeecocktails.livejournal.com
I just saw it and I'm kind of speechless. Seriously, I don't even know what to say. Whether it's real or not, it's really, really upsetting :-( I'll be thinking about whether I stay in the comm too. It's all pretty disappointing at the moment.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
If it's not real, then it's someone just trying to be mean, and that isn't acceptable... But if it's real, then it's truly hurtful, damaging, and dangerous to this person's recovery.

Pathetic troll. Don't they have better things to do with their lives than try to ruin others?

Date: 2009-04-13 02:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] darkhawkhealer.livejournal.com
I am confused.

What is the drama with the comm?

Because one troll does not a comm make, right? What'd I miss?

Date: 2009-04-13 04:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chibi-nezu.livejournal.com
I join you in the confusion. I haven't noticed anything hateful and this post is just troll stupidity which can't be helped. Only deleted and banned after the fact.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
*points to other reply*

Date: 2009-04-13 05:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
It's mostly not hateful posts like this one, but there have been so many stupid ass posts lately. Like "OMG squee, listen to this OH SO FUNNY phone conversation I had with a friend about Jackson Rathbone." It's just... getting a bit childish over there...

Date: 2009-04-13 05:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] darkhawkhealer.livejournal.com
Yeah, I thought that was dumb, but then I have a tendency to skim/scroll past anything that doesn't look interesting to me.

I get what you mean, though. I keep the comm because I might need them later. And because it's more work for me to defriend something than it is to scroll past it. *lazy*

*snuggles you*

Date: 2009-04-13 05:26 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
I don't know. It was like, now on top of the stupid, there is hateful and damaging now. *sigh* I won't defriend now, but I'm tempted. I'm really pretty pissed about this, which is probably stupid since it doesn't REALLY concern me, but... whatev.

Date: 2009-04-13 03:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aoibhe.livejournal.com
Urgh, fail troll is made of fail. ::sigh:: That's horrible.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
I've never been so close to reporting someone. But I don't actually know how and am work... so just. Ugh.

Date: 2009-04-13 06:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aoibhe.livejournal.com
LJ doesn't often pay attention to abuse claims, especially when it isn't coming from the person being harrassed. ::sigh::

The woman in question does know about it though, so I'm hoping abuse does something about it. It's horrible and disgusting and cruel and just skdjbkjdshbjkdshb. This makes me so angry.

Date: 2009-04-13 11:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
I was seriously pissed, and I don't even know the person who was posted about. I'm home and have napped and calmed down now, but like I said above, if the original post was falsified, it's mean, but it it was true, it's damaging and dangerous to that person's recovery. Not to mention it only propagates the stigma attached to people who suffer from the sorts of things mentioned.

Ugh. I shouldn't take it so personally, I know, and I LIKE to believe the best in people, but sometimes someone comes along and makes me want to punch people in the face.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fangirl1981.livejournal.com
Dude what the hell? I had somebody harassing me and insulting me in my own journal before but never had anyone do something that awful.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
And they're doing it in as many place as they can. It's disgusting.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fangirl1981.livejournal.com
It really says more about how sad and messed up that person is than anything else. If they feel the need to go out of their way to tear down somebody else they have serious issues.

Date: 2009-04-13 05:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
INORITE?! Pathetic. I hate to sound cliche, but anyone who can be so hateful must hate themselves just as much.

Date: 2009-04-13 09:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moonflower75.livejournal.com
I know this is going to sound dumb, but the link in your post gives an error message and I do not actually know what happened.
I inferred from the comments that someone insulted someone else, but where did that happen? and, most important, why?

Date: 2009-04-13 11:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] severity-softly.livejournal.com
Some asshat made a hateful post at the main CM comm. Either the mods or the poster deleted it.

Date: 2009-04-14 05:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moonflower75.livejournal.com
I really don't think I am ever going to understand some poeple's need to be mean AND stupid. It is completely beyond me.
Thank you for explaining, I am quite glad that post got erased: it's certainly not the kind of thing I joined the comms for.

Date: 2009-04-14 12:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ubervirgin.livejournal.com
I didn't see the image, but that is not only because they took it down, but because I honestly tend to fic type journals when it comes to the CM fandom. It's not out of a want to be anti-social, but I have just found so many other items of interest in the fic areas and I tend to get annoyed in the regular communities. People seem less "live and let live" and more "rawr, i are asshole, hear me roar".

What was the main gist of the image?

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