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Mar. 23rd, 2009 07:33 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
I've been reading about imaginary friends lately and came across some interesting ideas. Hence, the poll.
For the purposes of this poll, "imaginary friends" can be completely invented, or imaginary versions of real or fictional people you know/know of.
And please feel free to PIMP THIS OUT! :D
[Poll #1370741]
For the purposes of this poll, "imaginary friends" can be completely invented, or imaginary versions of real or fictional people you know/know of.
And please feel free to PIMP THIS OUT! :D
[Poll #1370741]
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:41 pm (UTC)The two that I remember for sure were Popeye and Tizzy. But I'm pretty sure there were others.
And what I really wanted to answer for the correlation question is Maybe, but you didn't have that option. LOL
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:49 pm (UTC)Mine were always of the 'imagined versions of real people/characters' variety of imaginary friends when I was little.
Oh, and shoot. You always forget an option on these things, huh?
I have to admit, I am surprised by the number of people who already admitted to having imaginary friends now. I was nervous I'd be the only one. LOL
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Date: 2009-03-24 12:05 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-03-24 12:08 am (UTC)But yes, I seriously do live in my own little world, and although I fully recognize the reality of life out there, I like it better in here.
>.>
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Date: 2009-03-24 06:21 pm (UTC)(sorry if I bother you, but my Dave Rossi obession is making me do and say weird and scary things these days...^_- Or blame it on living in my cm-fantasy world, I'm spending too much time in.)
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Date: 2009-03-24 11:19 pm (UTC)Even if it's really weird to hear him say words like 'tit' and 'pussy'. O.O
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Date: 2009-03-27 05:34 pm (UTC)And from now on I'm gonna spend every day of my life looking for one of them. ;) Gonna be a real challange. (finding even one of them in a German book(or whatever)store...*faints*)
Wish me luck!
God, living in Germany really sucks, when you're a Dave Rossi fanatic. *live's cruel*
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:49 pm (UTC)...
My childhood (and actually still alot of right now...) was more about daydreaming and blocking out storylines than it was playing with imaginary friends. Does that make sense? Like, I would be 'in' an episode of Saved By The Bell, and I'd be plotting out where everybody would be and who would walk down which hallway and the dialogue.
Even now what I get when I write is not so much the Muses 'talking' to me, as it is me seeing a scene in my head (like on a telvision screen, or happening around me).
*sigh* Normal is overrated. No, really.
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:54 pm (UTC)I do hear conversations. I see scenes. I often act out scenes, which I've been given the O.o of doom for admitting before. *shrugs*
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:59 pm (UTC)*headdesk*
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Date: 2009-03-24 12:04 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-03-24 12:06 am (UTC)I do this! In fact, despite being in my 30s, I frequently put on my cloak and wander around in the woods behind our house having entire conversations with my characters.
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Date: 2009-03-25 01:39 am (UTC)Typical morning:
Mom: "Where is my purse? I know I put it over here."
Me: "Maybe you moved it"
Mom: "Puuuurrrrsssseeeee. Oh, Purse. Come here Purse. Puuurrrrsssseeee"
Me: It doesn't have legs. It can't come to you.
Mom: "Oh, there it is. I told you all you have to do is call it."
And the woman wonders where I get it. ^_^
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:56 pm (UTC)I'm the psych major, I have to make the differentiation, at least in my own head :: laughs ::
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Date: 2009-03-23 11:59 pm (UTC)Tis why I put "speak" and "hear" in quotes. :)
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Date: 2009-03-24 12:42 am (UTC)I didn't honestly THINK you were saying that you literally heard them, but... well, I make the distinction in my head, and couldn't in good conscience say anything but "other" :)
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Date: 2009-03-24 12:04 am (UTC)now thoughI have a fu*&ing house full of muses who 'talk' to me... mainly via scenes or writing... especially typos... my characters cry when I mistype...
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Date: 2009-03-24 12:48 am (UTC)The imaginary friends aren't MORE real to him than real people, but they are differently real, if that makes sense. it's pretty similar to how I think about fictional characters. Not realer or less real, exactly, more like differently real. I've never felt like the characters could run away with me or speak to me, but they do have some realness as fictional entities.
I guess my kid and I both have a sense that you can learn things from people who are fictional, and so it pays to treat them with respect.
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Date: 2009-03-24 01:17 am (UTC)Not realer or less real, exactly, more like differently real.
Huh. I had never actually thought about it that way. I can see that, though, that they may not actually exist, but they STILL have an impact on us anyway. I like that idea.
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Date: 2009-03-24 01:07 am (UTC)As for nowadays, when I write, the characters don't usually talk directly to me. It's more a case of seeing what's happening and/or getting into a particular character's POV/headspace ( my very first posted CM fic was writen first person Hotch POV). When I'm writing dialogue, I'll often hear it in the character's voice as I'm typing, but it's more like I'm transcribing rather than that they're talking to me directly.
I tend more to thinking about what the characters would do (daydreaming? *g*) than actually talking to them. I'm more likely to talk to them when I'm watching an ep--and then it's usually--"Don't do that, you idiot!" more than anything else.
I will admit that I sometimes talk to imaginary versions of real people in my life, but that's generally not related to my writing. I have a very active imaginary life at times. :D
As for the correlation question, like
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Date: 2009-03-24 01:23 am (UTC)*G* My biggest "imaginary friend" when I was little was Gilda Radner, the RL comedian from the early years of SNL. I used to imagine I was on the cast, and pretend she was my best friend. When I found out that version of SNL hadn't actually been on the air for a decade and I was watching reruns, I cried my freaking eyes out because this silly fantasy life where I was Gilda's best friend was SO REAL to me. *headdesk*
I tend to go back and forth between listening to them have conversations (my biggest bursts of solo writing usually come in the form of straight dialogue that I have to flesh out later), talking to them, and "getting into their headspace"... which for me usually comes with acting scenes out like a crazy person. ;)
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Date: 2009-03-24 02:04 am (UTC)I can understand it--and why it made you sad.
The first show I really remember doing this with was a cartoon called G-Force/Battle of the Planets (it was originally Japanese and called Gatchaman there--didn't find that out til I was an adult and had the internets...). I was probably around 6 or 7 at the time, and I SO wanted to be a member of the G-Force--I often played alone at home cus there weren't a lot of kids my age nearby--and being part of that team was one of my regular "games".
"getting into their headspace"... which for me usually comes with acting scenes out like a crazy person. ;)
Ah, see I don't usually act scenes out. I'm primarily visual/auditory. I'll picture a scene and let it run through in my head. Sometimes, I'll say it in my head--"okay, so Reid does this, then Hotch would react like this, etc." And sometimes I get both! It's interesting to see how other people deal with this aspect of writing/creativity.
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Date: 2009-03-24 01:41 am (UTC)Funny thing is I have been writing since I was eight, but it wasnt until I let go and starting listening that I became a good writer. I used to think it was crazy, somehow not right, but who am I to judge.....I realize there are a lot of us and it doesnt feel so crazy anymore.
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Date: 2009-03-24 02:05 am (UTC)And I think you definitely have to listen. My dialogue has gotten so much more natural over the last few year because I've just sat back and listened.
I just started reading these articles, and a couple mentioned writers who "talked" to their characters, or who's characters "ran away with" their stories (happens to me all the time), and I wondered if it was common to be as insane as I am about it. Apparently, it is! :D
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Date: 2009-03-24 02:25 am (UTC)Its not often that someone talks directly to me, its usually the listening thing, even if I am listening to their thoughts.
One of the authors I just interviewed said the characters talk in his head as well and allow him to listen so its just very interesting that all this conversation came up tonight about a subject I have been almost afraid to discuss.
Oh, and I talk to myself all the time, hashing out scenes and conversations....I did it most of the day today, everyday really.
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Date: 2009-03-24 02:31 am (UTC)Oh, and I cry and laugh with characters ALL THE TIME. I write with Innerslytherin a lot from work, and people will often ask me why I'm so happy when we're writing good scenes, and I try not to cry when writing sad ones. I think we BOTH cried like babies when we wrote our long Hotch/Rossi fic and still cry when we reread it.
*G* Why were you afraid to discuss it? (Though, as I say that, I was brave and took my poll first, and was honestly afraid everyone else would deny they had "imaginary friends" as adults!)
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Date: 2009-03-24 03:11 am (UTC)Yet I just told everyone who reads your threads. Go figure : )
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Date: 2009-03-24 02:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-03-25 04:19 pm (UTC)For the correlation between imaginary friends and creativity, I think that in some cases, or most, imaginary friends are the projection of creativity, so the more interesting, the more depth and 'life' the imaginary friends have, the more creative the person is.